pre-amble page that says vaguely 'do you enjoy the presence of other people' or something to that effect and gives a Y/N answer; if Y, comments section is unhidden; if N, comments section is removed
the comments section is called 'presences' - ie '7 presences' '0 presences' etc, which helps contextualize the previous ask. the comments are hidden except for the '[x] presences' blurb at the bottom. the name is hopefully vague enough to entice someone to hover with the mouse, which will change the cursor to a pointer to entice them to click and unhide the comments.
